tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6508287140975351636.post2954390645871895317..comments2024-02-14T03:29:39.594-05:00Comments on This Is Me: Dealing with people you don't likespldbchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05505641654468777964noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6508287140975351636.post-41563793755536114472011-09-04T15:42:17.431-04:002011-09-04T15:42:17.431-04:00Just an update. Things went pretty well this past...Just an update. Things went pretty well this past weekend. I focused on being the way I am when I like myself most. I noticed she got her hair done and I told her it looked nice (which was honest - it did). She was a bit taken aback at first, but then she said thank you. Hopefully things will continue to go that smoothly, but only time will tell.spldbchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05505641654468777964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6508287140975351636.post-78310732859141542942011-08-31T13:39:47.498-04:002011-08-31T13:39:47.498-04:00Hi - some wise words and I really like your recogn...Hi - some wise words and I really like your recognition that the best solutions lie within yourself. <br /><br />I've found that changing the 'meaning' we impart on such awkward meetings can help, as can altering the way we 'define' the toxic person. For instance, moving from seeing them as vindictive and bullying to fearful and childish could take away a lot of the venom.<br /><br />I wish you well in your dealings with her.Andrew Leighhttp://www.dealingwithtoxicpeople.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6508287140975351636.post-78943765647860642832011-08-30T00:25:03.407-04:002011-08-30T00:25:03.407-04:00wow. this post is really appropriate and timely. i...wow. this post is really appropriate and timely. i try to avoid people i didlike too because of the emotions i feel when im with them. thanks for sharing. now i know that i should keep a different outlook when im with them.Reenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03223488318835419576noreply@blogger.com